What are we tired of? Other than dates with complete imbeciles, you ask? These questions and statements. So please, my beloved, beloved friends and followers… stop.
“How are you still single? You’re so great.”
What I think: So, being great and being married are apparently mutually exclusive? Thanks so much. It IS amazing that I’m so great and yet haven’t found ANYONE that thinks so.
What I say: Thanks, I appreciate that. I’m happy being single, just waiting for the right person.
“It’ll happen when you least expect it.”
What I think: Well, I currently expect it never. So Mr. Wonderful must be on his way right this second.
What I say: I know, that’s what everyone says. So I’m just going to focus on my friends and work, and getting in shape and maybe he’ll just show up.
“Don’t you ever get lonely?”
What I think: No, of course not. Going to weddings alone, waking up alone every morning, not having a person to call after the worst meeting ever when you just need to vent… fun times.
What I say: Sometimes. But I’m really busy so its like, you know, sometimes I don’t even notice.
“You should try online dating. My friend met their husband/wife that way.”
What I think: I KNOW THAT ALREADY. YOU TOLD ME THAT THE LAST THREE TIMES WE HAD THIS CONVERSATION.
What I say: Yeah, maybe I’ll try it again. I mean, it’s all about timing, right?
“They don’t deserve you.”
What I think: Bullshit.
What I say: Oh, thanks. That’s sweet of you. I’m sure I’ll find someone who appreciates me and it will all be worth it.
“You are such a catch.”
What I think: History disagrees with you. I don’t disagree with you, but apparently all men do.
What I say: Thanks, I know. I just need to find the right guy.
At a wedding: “You better get out there, they’re doing the bouquet toss.”
What I think: Get me the f*ck out of here. What every single girl wants, to be paraded around like a three legged dog who can’t find a man to marry her so you throw something at her.
What I say: I’m going to hit the ladies room and then grab another drink. You good?
“You have to love yourself before you can love someone else.”
What I think: Yeah, because you are just the picture of self-acceptance. How much was that last round of Botox? And you haven’t eaten carbs in, what, three years?
What I say: I know, I’m working on that.
“We’ll all be laughing about this someday.”
What I think: I fear we won’t.
What I say: I know!
“Don’t give up, it’ll happen.”
What I think: Maybe. Or maybe not. I’ll be fine either way, but I’m not betting on it.
What I say: Maybe. Or maybe not. I’ll be fine either way, but I’m not betting on it.
Thanks to Buzzfeed for providing this amazing, relatable and very true list.